Are you selling the juice bar and dance studio?
Yes, to an employee. She’ll take over in 3 years and she’ll do a better job of running it.
What are you going to do instead?
Open and run Redneck Bistro.
Where’s that going to be?
Same neighborhood (SnoKing). Having trouble finding a landlord in this neighborhood who is ok with name.
Why don’t you open it in Ballard or Capitol Hill instead? They’d be ok with the name.
I’m emotionally invested in SnoKing neighborhood. We’ll figure it out.
Why is the blog so focused on narcissism?
Influence from The Last Psychiatrist (who probably isn’t a psychiatrist), who says that narcissism is the fundamental human condition. Originally, the blog was about Original Sin, and that sin could be anything depending on the individual. Now I think narcissism *is* our Original Sin and that other sins (eg. envy, sloth, greed) are its expressions.
Are millennials more narcissistic than other generations?
No. Even though some (poorly designed) studies suggest they are.
You really don’t think millennials are more narcissistic?
They’re about as narcissistic as their parents. Cultures evolve slowly and don’t change much.
Are there cultures that aren’t narcissistic?
No, it’s our Original Sin. But the Amish come the closest.
How do we become less narcissistic?
According to The Last Psychiatrist, the moment you stop thinking of yourself as a narcissist — the moment you deny your Original Sin — is when you become one. You’ll stop noticing your narcissistic habits, such as virtue signalling and fishing for compliments. Never let your guard down.
What’s an example of a subtle narcissistic act?
When someone says: “It is with unbearable grief and deep sadness that I announce the unexpected death of our dear friend…” that person is bringing inappropriate attention to himself. Attention should be on the person who died.
Are American schools really that bad?
No. The quality is uneven, the top 100 American schools can compete against the best in the world, while 80 percent of high schools and colleges (Pareto Principle) shouldn’t exist because they produce no or negative value.
What do you mean by negative value?
They make students dumber.
How do they make students dumber?
Good schools teach grit. Shit schools are obsessed with the emotional health of students. Which ironically makes students emotionally frail and stupid.
Do you think schools in China are much tougher than those in the US?
The top schools in the US are *at least* as tough as the top schools in China. The average school in China, however, is much tougher than the average school in US.
How do you know?
People point to China’s college entrance exam — gaokao, a 3 day exam — as example of how far ahead of us they are. But they’re comparing it to the SAT, a 3 hour exam that tests basic skills. That’s not a fair comparison. American students who get into schools like Harvard and CalTech typically ace 8-12 AP exams and then ace a slew of SAT Achievement tests in addition to acing the SAT. Top American students take MORE, not fewer exams than their Chinese counterparts. And American tests are more difficult.
So you don’t think we should emulate Asian schools?
No need to emulate them, our schools need to emulate top American schools.
Why doesn’t average school emulate top American schools?
Middle-class America is the too fucktarded and delusional and soft to emulate the best Americans. American middle-class was made by Redneck work ethic and values. Then they decided to abandon and demonize those values as a way to get ahead. Now the middle-class finds itself slipping and is scared about its future, even while high-paying Redneck jobs go unfilled because middle-class no longer want them.
Will American middle class disappear?
No. They’ll self-correct. While American parenting is soft, American society is tough on its people and its businesses operate as do stereotypical East Asian families. American society will crush you if you don’t work hard and long. People eventually figure it out.
Caption: How the best American companies are run: Steve Jobs makes Tiger Mom look like a kitten.